Phone Coaching July - Catch Me Issues

I was having trouble figuring out how to use the catch me game for zero tolerance and progress--Try's commitment to the relationship so scheduled call with Dan. (I may have been too tired during the lesson last week to do anything but follow commands from Dan--no real processing on my part.)

In no particular order:
1. Try's "yes but" 75% truly impedes our progress.
2. round corral--haul her to the mats. Important for Try and for me that I WIN it. 

Process

1. Turn toward gets a 1/4 to 1/2 break. Also when she turns toward I back a bit to release pressure. The restart the process of blocking and change of direction. Try will find the good deal is checking in with me.
2. If she turns toward me and stops. Do nothing. Be neutral--allow Try time to process even if its a few minutes. Then draw with approach. If she is too intimidated fearful, draw with retreat. LB/RB

Intense Session: can you get her to accept something physically. Next day ok to break it up mentally with trail ride etc. Note it is normal that she will be physically trashed because of her mental anguish.

Looking for mental, emotional, physical and rappore.

When Try is snarky, refuses--go to round pen block her.

Try is very good at controlling things. I need to take control. She may be resentful in the short term that she isn't able to control.

Cantering on autopilot--interrupt and block until her spin away becomes spin toward. I can cut the ange, be a little ahead of her so I don't have to work as hard. Block continually until she turns toward. Game back on.

When she turns toward. INSTANTly give her relief by backing away. She will learn turning toward is better than away.

Try will turn loose of the idea she has to control that its not a bad deal for me to be the leader.

Picking me up at the mounting block: NO phase immediate consequence of an APPROPRIATE phase 4 she cares about--if I don't get the result--next time a bigger phase 4 if need be.

When Try sees I am different in my awareness she will drop the sneaky sabotage behavior. I need to be consistent. AND this is FUN--JIM CARREY.

More pressure, persistence and time. Match Energy when she gets emotional riding unless its too much for me to ride then round pen.